It’s been a week since New Year’s. How’re you feeling? Checking off the goals on your list? Keeping to the straight and narrow? Running on the right track? Falling off the wagon? Feeling in a rut? You are not alone. My first week didn’t go as planned. It went better than the week before but by no means was it perfect. It is times like these that I like to think of my friends who don’t drink Tequila. I like tequila; it’s probably my favorite shooting liquor (probably due to the licking of salt and inappropriate placement of juicy lime slices).
My friends who don’t like tequila will often say “Oooo, I had a bad experience with tequila once.”
My response is “Did you ever fall off a bike?”
“Yeah, everybody has.”
“Did you walk your bike back to the garage and hang it up, or did you get back on and ride on down the road?”
“Well, I biked back home with my skinned knee.”
“Bartender, two tequilas with salt and lime slices, please!”
My point is to keep on truckin’ on. You take your scrapes and bruises and you learn to do better. Please ignore the fact that my drinking tequila may have lead to minor flesh wounds.
You also may have come across some unbelievers, detractors, debaters, or haters. People in your life who can’t believe you are starting on a diet or a regiment again. People who will find something wrong with each choice you make, often armed with trite half truths – “Running is bad for your knees” or “Carbs can be part of a healthy diet.” They will debate the merits of your plan you have put in place even though they can’t see a plan through themselves. Some people are just plain mean. As much as I love my community at the gym, I heard a snippet of conversation this week while walking behind some regulars on the track. It was said loud enough that all the newbies on the treadmills, stationary bikes, and ellipticals could hear.
“I can’t wait til all these losers with their New Year’s “Loserlutions” give up, so we can get back to our regularly scheduled awesomeness.”
Don’t listen to them. Listen to your reasons for being at the gym. Don’t listen to the unbelievers – what do they really believe in? Don’t listen to the detractors – if they use “but” instead of “and” they are not trying to help you on your path. Don’t even engage with the debaters. As to the haters, listen to your heart. Listen to your well of unconditional love for yourself. Listen to the part of you that believes you can do anything you can dream and then figure out how to make it so.
Ran four times this week for over twelve miles, but slept through an alarm and stood up running partners. This lead to some running days in a row without giving my body proper recovery time. Lost two pounds so I am down to 283. I did do two days of cross training in the pool swimming. I also had a tour of the new weight machines this week to set myself up for successful weight training in week two. I did not stretch everyday. Maybe five days out of the week. I resolve to do better next week. I will watch and participate in a yoga for runners program to further me towards that goal. I have continued to develop plans towards a career supported by running and continue to be excited. Thank you for joining me on this journey.